There are days when I want to go back to times when everythign was simpler. No worrying about anthing. Then I slap myself and realise it was nothing more than a sweet dream that some how got blown away by the wind of " messed it all up".
I say this because like I have said before, we make everything so complicated. Especially when we lie. Now I know that both sexes, male and female know what it feels like to be in a situation where you are being lied to or you are lying. It hurts, whether you are a guy or a chick. But why do we do it? Because what we have at the moment is not good enough. What we have in a relattionshop is just not "what we expected". But why not just come out and say it? Because we cannot risk loosing the sure thing for the maybe. I know, stupid! No, true. It is for this reason ladies that your man is busy chattign up his ex and for the same reason you feel because he is doing this that perhaps you should. It is for this reason that relationships are stuck on the same stop for years. Alot of so called successful relationships fail all the time and only because some idiot( male or female) didn't have the guts to tell you to take a hike! It is because you are too afraid to take a risk of being with someone who is just not for you in anyway possible. I speak about relationships because they are usually the cause of your disfunction. Don't act like you don;t know!!! You see, hear or find something you don;t like and you turn into someone you didn't know existed. You turn into a blood thirsty, bitchy, needy stalker who just cannot let go. You throw your toys out of the cot and if pushed even further you tend to cause harm. And who can blame you? No one but yourself because we tend to get stuck on stupid for all the crazy reasons. It is like smoking. It is bad for you but boy oh boy does it hit the right spot. One puff and it is all better. I don't want to tell you how to live your life or who to love. But at soem point we all have to realise that self love is the start to all possibilities. And no, I didn't watch Oprah. I just believe that if you take even just 15 minutes out of your day to be with yourself and realise just how great you are, everyone around you will see it to. Perhaps even that idiot who lies and cheats on you and who sits up all night chatting to his spare and keeps track of the latest MXIT scandal to check the young naked girls and who stopped taking you out to chill with his friends and who won't touch you with a ten foot pole and who would rather be out drinking than home with you and who would prefer to make dates with the ex to " hook up for coffee" with the "old crew"... Yes you know it is the way it is and there is no ther way there is. So be good to you boys and girls. Really. Just be you and that will be good enough. Get your hair did, buy a new sexy fit jeans and low cut top. Go out and buy yourself a drink because you are good to you. Beyonce said it better when she said: Let's go lil kitty cat. That's right, you and kitty will be just fine. And the same goes to the gents. Get that new Uzzi t shirt you wanted with the KG jeans. You buy yourself a drink and be good to the one person you can depend on.
Simple. That's right. It is as simple as changing your g-string. Remember that the only time someone can take away your inner self worth is if you allow them to. So leave the Dear John letter if you like or ask the Question Who do you love. But whatever you do my friends be good to you and stay true to you, always.
