Show me a gorgeous woman and I'll show you a guy who is drained by her niggling!
I have often heard women say "Men will never understand women" or amongst others, "Men don't have a clue what a women want". "He doesn't care", "He is not sensitive to my needs" or "He doesn't kiss and hold me like I want him too", "He is an insensitive pig" is frequently the murmur from the plaintiff. I can almost guarantee that if I ask ten women how much affection is enough....the answer would be the same from all, that you can never give enough affection.
Do women live on affection? If she doesn't get it from her companion, will she long and hunger after it? Will she seek it elsewhere, perhaps from an acquaintance, familiar being or outsider? Is such affection required for a woman to have a good day? My answer to this is positive...if men tend to this need, will it end the feud? I doubt. I state my reasons below:
Women will always complain. I deduce that lack of understanding is one of the greatest contributors to this delinquency. I call this a delinquency because of women's unyielding stance on this subject. Because of the females brawl for equality, women have become egocentric. Not restoring the balance between the sexes but self seeking, presumably to avoid regress. Women tend to focus more on what they want, neglecting to understand the wants and needs of their male counterpart. As a woman reading this, you may argue that you do so much for him already. The problem is, women decide on their own what it is that men need, and they just continue doing it for him or to him without regard.
The lack of submission to a symbolic figurehead is one of the major contributors to the breakdown in union. I admit that men are somewhat responsible for not fulfilling their responsibilities as a leader of his pride. Men's failures to love, provide, guide and protect his family has left society at a loss. This break has caused a serious imbalance in society, demanding of women to take on new challenges. Crying out loud to have this imbalance restored and often erring in their approach.
Here is a tip. Male lions hunt alone whereas female lions hunt in packs. If a resident male is defeated by a new male they will leave the pride and typically will never return. Male lions are very territorial and will form coalitions with other male lions to acquire larger territories. This is a direct link to the male pride and independence that is often misunderstood.
I'd like to end by saying that in its entirety, men and women are similar in being, accept for the fact that they are inverted. Women are very strong in will and can endure long, their external expression are soft and delicate. Men are the inversion of this, their external expression is strong and enduring but internally they are gentle, caring and protective. These two breaths are called the art of the sun's heat, which is the male, and the art of the moon's coolness, which is the female. The moon takes in the light of the sun and sends it out as cool yellow rays in the night.
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