Posted by: tom_boi in Untagged on
Aug 25, 2008
Its monday morning, most people are suffering from mondaytitus as am I. The weather for me is miserable as it is cold and wet out side. Yet i still came to work this morning thinking hey this day could turn out to be a good day, one can never tell.
Much to my dismay unfortunately we cant always have what we want.Came into work only to discover that not only do i have to deal with a desk full of work. looks like a paper war but i had to deal with the fact that someone i had deemed as a very good friend no longer wants to be a friend of mine at all.
what is it with people and the truth? why can they never handle the truth? why do they always expect to say and do bad things and get away with it? i don't get this about us so called human being's. well for me right now i feel like a pile of hogwash simply because to me i believed that i was doing the right thing but telling the truth and letting others know what is going on. yet everybody now seems to think that i am the bad one and i ruined two friendships.
Causing misery to others is not my style. yes most people deem me the ICE QUEEN but i find that it is the only way people will not walk over me or take me for granted. with that i am also a brutally honest person thinking that maybe just maybe being honest is the right thing. The end of the day my friendship with Mr J makes me feel as if being honest was not the right thing to do. why? cause i lost a friend. yet it makes me think whether or not that person really was a true friend or not.
oh well as he doesnt want anything to do with me anymore i guess i will never know whether he was a true friend. Monday morning blues, some people are dealing with weekend headaches and jol times, others are dealing with not wanting to be at work just because the weekend was just to short for their liking.Others are dealing with many other issues, i am dealing with checking a 200page correction (work) and the loss of a friend.
sad day for sure!!!
Posted by: tom_boi in Untagged on
Aug 12, 2008
PEOPLE COME INTO YOUR LIFE FOR A REASON:
I am sending this to you to see how many actually read their email. Your response will be interesting.
Pay attention to what you read. After you have finished reading it, you will know the reason it was sent to you. Here goes:
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. (or for you to offer the same FOR or to THEM). They may seem like a godsend and they are.. They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.
