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You can't understand me

I don't need you to try

Just stand the and love me

it's not your fault, i cry.

It happens sometimes

My Heart gets severely torn

Between what i want and what is right

Between who I am and who is in control

It's okay, just smile when i do

It's okay, just hold me

I'm going to get through

Just be here for me.

Don't speak

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Show me a gorgeous woman and I'll show you a guy who is drained by her niggling!

I have often heard women say "Men will never understand women" or amongst others, "Men don't have a clue what a women want". "He doesn't care", "He is not sensitive to my needs" or "He doesn't kiss and hold me like I want him too", "He is an insensitive pig" is frequently the murmur from the plaintiff. I can almost guarantee that if I ask ten women how much affection is enough....the answer would be the same from all, that you can never give enough affection.

Do women live on affection? If she doesn't get it from her companion, will she long and hunger after it? Will she seek it elsewhere, perhaps from an acquaintance, familiar being or outsider? Is such affection required for a woman to have a good day? My answer to this is positive...if men tend to this need, will it end the feud? I doubt. I state my reasons below:

Women will always complain. I deduce that lack of understanding is one of the greatest contributors to this delinquency. I call this a delinquency because of women's unyielding stance on this subject. Because of the females brawl for equality, women have become egocentric. Not restoring the balance between the sexes but self seeking, presumably to avoid regress. Women tend to focus more on what they want, neglecting to understand the wants and needs of their male counterpart. As a woman reading this, you may argue that you do so much for him already. The problem is, women decide on their own what it is that men need, and they just continue doing it for him or to him without regard.

The lack of submission to a symbolic figurehead is one of the major contributors to the breakdown in union. I admit that men are somewhat responsible for not fulfilling their responsibilities as a leader of his pride. Men's failures to love, provide, guide and protect his family has left society at a loss. This break has caused a serious imbalance in society, demanding of women to take on new challenges. Crying out loud to have this imbalance restored and often erring in their approach.

Here is a tip. Male lions hunt alone whereas female lions hunt in packs. If a resident male is defeated by a new male they will leave the pride and typically will never return. Male lions are very territorial and will form coalitions with other male lions to acquire larger territories.  This is a direct link to the male pride and independence that is often misunderstood.

I'd like to end by saying that in its entirety, men and women are similar in being, accept for the fact that they are inverted. Women are very strong in will and can endure long, their external expression are soft and delicate. Men are the inversion of this, their external expression is strong and enduring but internally they are gentle, caring and protective. These two breaths are called the art of the sun's heat, which is the male, and the art of the moon's coolness, which is the female. The moon takes in the light of the sun and sends it out as cool yellow rays in the night.

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Did u ever think about this tool that you sit and use everyday?what makes the internet what defines one kilobito where is this value stored that we cant see and why dont you see these notes flying past your everyday existance?my strange love affair with this medium started 12 years ago as a hip hopper that wanted to read more about the scene to have information at my disposal,well it started on a 56k modem damn how annoying was dailup but how beautiful was this tool.i believe he who holds information have a edge in life.well years passed the excitement of checking out the first porn site faded and speed were upped.my journey widened and i became a broadcaster of some sort holding keys to several doors and mesmerising this digital planet.i was just thinking about it how it seems mr gates is losing his hold on this brilliant IT world i think it started losing that power when he and several others tried to dictate a medium that was to be free for all,well you might say he got billions etc etc but that money doesnt contain i believe what he seeks you can only have so much then what?well i might be just a blogger but i have the ability to steer and redirect a nation of bloggers to a whole new space that could possibly change the existance of mankind forever.why did sites like facebook change the frontier of the movement?well they allowed everybody to be a part of change instead of trying to steer the ship alone.twelve years ago i was a geek for sitting on a pc and reading words that someone else typed 10000 miles away today it seems everybody followed my path to become that geek.i just typed a note in html script im posting it via my mobile who in turn sends out gprs signals that transmits to a server that takes these keystrokes and transforms it to a webpage that is then viewed by some eyes who wanders in search of reading material!dont u think that is brilliant?Now im not sitting at Stanford or Harvard yet but i realised twelve years ago i had the ability to capture a audience and transmit my thoughts my ideas and my images to these selective listerners.now u could say thats easy i can do that the question is do u have the patience could u intrigue minds and ears to come back to that space that you created and could you excite them to come back for more episodes?People really take note of this shit you write believe me,walking down melrose avenue 2004 minding my business just a uneducated african on another continent i realised this medium is gigantic,imagine walking into Fatbeats one of hip hops most known vinyl stores and someone coming up to you and saying HEY I KNOW YOU? NO you dont know me im not from here! YOU from AFRICA.Thats Bananas YO

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Every man arrives at a point in his life where he is faced with a daunting question. What am I worth? What is my measure? What sets me apart from my friends and foe? How can I stand out from the crowd, being taller than all the others? How great am I? Can I stand the test of time and proclaim that "I am a Man"!  

During my short journey I came across many attempts to answer this question. "What makes a man a Man"? None to me whom responded to this question have done any justice in their reply. None to date satisfied my quest for this truth. No answer, theory or school of thought may be applied without reservation. 

Some believe in their ability to generate wealth, while others measure their physical strength. Some find surety in endurance and long suffering. Others place their fate in being the masters of the universe, solving complex problems, physics and science. 

The narrow minded comfort themselves with the male preoccupation with size, and their ability conquer the opposite sex.  

The most bizarre of all others not mentioned, is that a few believe that to conquer and control others make them superior in stature. A real man makes his own luck; he takes from and controls others to shape his circumstances in his favour. He is able to influence and direct his path to form his destiny. He is but one man on earth. 

There are so many answers to this question, about as many as there are individuals. Truth be told, I sometimes believe that to each is own. 

To me and it might be regarded as twaddle to anyone outside myself. I believe that, "Generosity of Spirit is the Measure of a Man". A generous spirit in all aspects is, but is not limited to kindness, giving, unbiased, noble, etc. To me this is the true measure of a Man. 

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Time is a man made entity to structure his life according to hours, minutes and seconds. When the heavens and earth were created, time did not exist and was not instituted by God. There is good reason for this.

So if time doesn't exist, how else do you plan your life? How else do you stay organised? Well the Creator has fashioned the universe so that man can live and organise his life according to incidents and events.

Living your life according incidents and events helps you interact with the environment and to become part of an everlasting sphere of subsistence. Man will become more aware of his surroundings and will become reliant on the universal existence of matter.

Instead of waking up at 05:00, rather wake up at the first crow of the rooster or to the song of a bird. Instead of leaving home at 06:00, leave home before traffic starts or the highways become congested. Instead of arriving at work by 08:00, arrive at work before you subordinates get there. Instead of meeting with colleague's everyday at 09:00, meet when there is a need or a matter to discuss. Instead of leaving the office at 17:00, leave the office when your work is done for the day. Instead of arriving home at 19:00, get home before your children go to bed. Instead of getting into bed by 23:00, get to bed after you've bath your kids, helped them with their homework, had supper together, played a game wit the kids, etc....

Time is a science that can be applied to space. When driving in your car at 100km/hour, you can double your speed and you'll be travelling at 100km/30min. Double your speed again and you'll be travelling at 100km/15min. As you continue to accelerate time is reduced and soon you'll be able to travel from one place to the next in no time at all. Double your speed then and time moves into the negative, hence travelling back to the future. We all know that travelling back to the future is naturally impossible and for this reason the time space theory fails.

Live your life according to incidents and events that matter. There is greater benefit than living your life according to the clock on your wrist.

• It will make you more aware of your environment and allow you to be come one with nature.
• It will allow you to do only what you can do before the next incident or event occur rather then trying to do more with less.
• Living your life according to incidents and events will reduce stress as you will be working in harmony with nature and not against it. You will co-exist with your environment and will become an ingredient to its greater being.

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