So last week my neice has become yet another statistic. Coloured meddie with 1 and a half kids and divorced!!! WTF! I actually thought it was an ok laaitie but guess what,I was wrong , so wrong. When I first found out I was like neh, not N....., he seemed like such a genuine ou. Then the stories started coming out! The abuse, both physical and emotional. I wanted to mess him up because nobody raises a hand for anybody in MY FAMILY!!! That thought passed when wifey calmed me down.
Now this brings me to my point , when are people gona realise " Trou is nie perd koop nie" i.e Marriage aint easy! We have too many young people getting married just so that they can get their freedom and don't take the time to really assess their lives. If your courtship was miserable then chances are your marriage will be much the same.
So I ask, when are we gona stop our young adults making what may be the biggest mistakes of their lives?
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written by Nokie, August 27, 2008
Nish i always say everything in life is a personal choice....and i also always say you will never be right in someone elses love. We cannot stop our youths from making any type of mistakes especially who they want to marry. its a persoanl choice to marry a man/woman who is abusive....and even if its your sister... who is been beaten you will never be right if you interfere with her love becos it was her choice to take that man....its was her choice to stay with that man...it has to be her choice to leave that man...as long as your ont he outside looking in you will always be the wrong one...its human nature to defend the ppl we love even if its to go against people that love us more....
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